My Story

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Hi, I’m Simon.

I care passionately about helping people overcome their challenges and live a life they feel proud of.

My Journey to Becoming Who I Am Today

Life isn’t always a straight path. Like many of you, I’ve faced my share of profound challenges, redundancy, the loss of my father and close friends, divorce and personal battles that tested my strength in ways I never expected. Each moment has deeply influenced who I am and how I approach coaching.

From Struggle Comes Strength

My journey has been marked by moments that could have broken me. Following a series of personal losses and battling through an intense crisis with one of my sons, I found myself grappling with overwhelming guilt and depression. There were times I felt the weight of despair, questioning my worth and purpose.

I have also struggled with my health since 2022 with long COVID. At one point early in 2022, I was slumped in my car waiting for an ambulance. Fearing the worst, my thoughts become self-critical rather than compassionate. I hadn’t made the most of my life, I hadn’t fulfilled my potential, and I didn’t feel proud of where I was in life or what I had achieved.

However, through these trials, I learned the irreplaceable value of self-acceptance and the courage to rebuild. It wasn’t just about getting back to where I was, it was also about discovering who I could become. I took every step to slowly piece together my identity, align my life with my true values, and confront and redefine the limiting beliefs and negative thoughts that held me back.

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Building a Life on My Own Terms

The path to recovery helped me understand the profound impact of creating a life aligned with our authentic self. I stopped trying to live up to an external image or someone else’s expectations. Instead, I embraced the complex, unique individual I am. This realisation wasn't quick, but it was transformative, leading me to a career in coaching where I can share these insights and support others in their journeys.

Why I Coach

I coach because I believe in the power of change and the possibility of renewal, no matter the obstacles. My approach is rooted in empathy, resilience, and the person-centred strategies that helped me turn my life around. I specialise in helping others navigate their personal challenges, from career transitions and family crises to finding renewed purpose in midlife and beyond.

Let’s Talk

If you’re feeling lost, overwhelmed, or just unsure of the next step, I’m here to help. Together, we can explore your aspirations, overcome your challenges, and build a life that celebrates who you truly are. Let’s explore how you can lead a life not defined by what you’ve gone through, but by what you aspire to become.

Training and Certifications

  • Certificate in Coaching with The Centre for Coaching & approved by The British Psychological Society and The International Society for Coaching Psychology

  • Certificate in Health & Wellbeing Cognitive Behavioural Coaching with The Centre for Coaching & approved by The British Psychological Society and The International Society for Coaching Psychology

  • Coaching Development Programme with The Institute of Leadership

  • Accredited Licensed Practitioner of Motivational Maps™

  • Level 1 DISC Certification with Optimus Coach Academy

  • RFU Level 2 Rugby Union Coach

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